Nice job you have done here,Debbie!
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Thursday, August 4, 2011
Friday, July 1, 2011
HAPPY CANADA DAY (JULY 1ST), MY FELLOW CANADIANS!
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Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.
Have a wonderful weekend!Thank you. You too!
“Cheers” to you and to Canada Debbie, and I love Maple Syrup but I’ve never tried Maple Liqueur., sounds like something that’d be a hoot to try. I hope your Canada Day goes with a bang my friend. xx
Thanks Pen. I’ve never tried Maple Liquer either, but, would love to try it on pancakes.
Have a wicked Canada Day Debbie
and don’t forget to lift some Goblets
of chilled Champagne… There is a
saying from Transylvania that all the
ladies that drink Champagne with a
straw, will be sloshed before the lids
are lifted…Not a good idea with Vampires in the
vicinity, but nice if one wants a bit… of
the Blood Red Claret as an alternative
feast… lol Well it could be true I guess,
but alas I made it all up… lolHave a Ghoulishly Fangtastic time now
and thank you for all of your excellent
comments upon my Scripts…Androgoth XXx
I’ll take the champagne, (sans straw), you have the claret, Andro. Cheers and Thanks!
Sunday, March 13, 2011
HOW TO BE A GOOD FRIEND
Some people need lessons, or, so it seems! 
I consider myself a good friend. Loyal, empathic, always here for you, no matter what the mood or circumstance. This is what TRUE friendship is all about.
Perhaps I have a little more empathy and sensitivity than the average person, (as I have been told), but, consider this scenario, if you will:
My father, (who lived in California with my mother, about 2600 miles away), suffered from lung cancer for six months, before he finally gave up the fight.
I have been back and forth several times since last September (2010). My last trip was for three weeks and I returned home on Feb. 6, as my father was in hospice care and appeared to be stable.
Sadly, he passed away on Feb. 9 (2011), three days after my return, and I headed back to California on Feb. 13.
The California authorities are difficult to deal with and it took a very long time to get the death certificates, plus, my mother has basically “zoned out” in her grief and won’t handle anything herself.
I was left with the nightmare scenario of dealing with taxes and the fact that my mother did not have a proper ID card to settle things with my father’s estate. This was never an issue when he was alive, but, now the banks will not cooperate with her unless she has that card.)
Added to that, I have been away from home and my husband for a long time, not to mention my business, which he has been running with the help of friends. This all caused me to fall into a state of depression and despair and in my anguish, reach out to someone I considered a good friend.
What do you suppose I got in return? DEAFENING silence – for days!! 
Eventually, there came this response: “Seemed like you were in a ranting depression the other day – hope things are better now” and an account of the vacation plans the family was making for Spring Break!
Please note, whenever this person was upset or depressed, I always tried to make them feel better with words of comfort and concern. This is someone who means a lot to me, but, obviously, that sentiment is NOT reciprocated!
Life is too short to put up with fair-weather friends. To those people I say:
!!
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Yes it is very sad indeed that your friend, even with your willingness to share your personal upset was so lacking with any responses to you, obviously this person didn’t want to offer any kind of support whatsoever and that is very upsetting and extremely
disappointing… With friends like that, who needs enemies?Do have a very nice rest of day and equally a relaxing care-free evening too…
Luckily not all Friends are like that…
Androgoth XXx
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Hey Congratulations Debbie, I don’t know how I missed this one but there’s a crate of the RED stuff waiting for you and your Hubby in My Gothic Realm, just be careful of Uncle Onslo as he likes to drink the whole batch all to himself
Have a wicked rest of evening and a great start to your week 
Androgoth XXx
Thank you Andro! We’ll keep an eye on Uncle Onslo.
Cheers!
HI Debbie, Belated congratulations to you both, I hope the celebrations were fantastic… and no hangovers ?
(what’s 38th?… I must go and google for it ) xPenx
Thank you Lady P. No hangovers, just a bit tired.
Stones are Beryl or Tourmaline
Happy Birthday,Angelo!!I wish you to be healthy and love my friend more and more every day!
love
Natasha
Thank you, Natasha, but it was our wedding anniversary.
Angelo is MUCH older than 38, LOL. 
Then again, so am I! 